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Melissa Knox's avatar

An intuitive lover! Exactly. I think many women feel it's unromantic to stop and explain. Or they're ashamed of it--they want the guy to know exactly what they like without having to tell him. Several decades of of how-to books (probably starting with Helen Gurley Brown's Sex and the Single GIrl) suggest it's better for women to be a bit more outspoken about what they like. But are women listening?

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Lee's avatar

Now that you mention it, Yes!

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Catherine Hiller's avatar

We are never too old to resurrect what we liked when we were young!

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Catherine Hiller's avatar

I think during an encounter women may not want to "be directive." But at some later time, she might like to inform her partner about what she likes most.

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Mark Thompson's avatar

I remember the excitement of the first kiss, whether it was on a first date, or in some cases, a first meeting!

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Catherine Hiller's avatar

How about in a parking lot?!

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Melissa Knox's avatar

"Just as you can’t teach someone to like olives, you can’t persuade them to love osculation." What a great line! So true!

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Catherine Hiller's avatar

Thanks! Possibly women like kissing more than men do. I wonder if gay women kiss more than gay men.

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